What do women really think about short guys? Is meeting a woman who likes a shorter man hopeless, or are there women out there who like shorter guys? We’ve found tons of women who love short men and compiled their responses. In the future we’ll be answering the next question: so how do I find these women?
lilbitsbits says
well as a lady of 5ft i have dated both tall and short.. and truely its not the heighth your dating its the person ok.. but i do know that my neck did get a little sore from bending back from kissing ..lol the taller men.. but for the right person its always worth it.. yes i love being with short men too.. walking with our arms around each others waists, not mine around his hips and his around my neck..lol and yes looking eye to eye right before that first kiss is so different coming from straight across than from towering down… but as i said before its WHO your with that matters not their heighth… i have even dated men shorter than me and that didnt bother me neither.. yes midgets.. real midgets.. as for those men who talk about strength.. nitro comes in small package.. blows up big block..lol… lilbitsbits
I love how sexy a well-built short guy can be…yummy! I’m just a little gal myself and I’ve found being intimate with someone twice my weight and a foot taller uncomfortable and ultimately a turn-off. I’ll take a handsome little stud over Mr. Linebacker guy any day of the week.
your not screwed. I’m 5 foot nothing, so chances are you’d be tall to me. And my dad is short (5’5”) and he and my mom have been married for all most 29 years. When you find the right girl, who knows what her height will be. good luck
JanetC says my ex husband was 5′ 5….. i was 5′ 5 1/2…. i had him by 1/2 inch….. generally i like a man who is about 5’6-5’9…… yes i like them short…. they just fit better….. for sex… hugging… cuddling……. someone around the same size as you is a good match…… so when your toes to toes your nose isnt in his belly butten…… and when you argue. you can look him in the eyes without the help of a kitchen chair……. and for a last thought…. the size of a man is not indication of the size of his heart….. or brain
Aerogirl says Well I have to stand in for the defence of “shorter real men” ..and most definately not because they need me too!! I was raised by a very powerful man who was 5’6 ..my father, and never did i see him as short..It’s all in the attitude baby!! When a shorter man has confidence in himself and has the right attitude he can seem 6’10, and plus I have known some very sexy shorter men in my time.
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Remember: in the end it´s not about looks. Any guy charming enough, whether short or tall, has a chance. some of you women are completely out of your mind and make people out there depressed more when they are find that women out there won’t date them just for being 5’9 or below. I mean c’mon, forget what society thinks, be independent and have a mind of your own…one that being non-judgemental. WHat’s wrong with dating a short guy………… if you focus on each other and see each others sexiness in a whole unique light…you’ll be a happy person !! Everyone goes through life’s struggle’s, and have many stories to tell….in the end we are all different looking but same in mind and body ! By the way your attraction in a person = you can build a new attraction. My definition of short = doesn’t exist, women or men !!
I will just say that kissing a guy who *ISN’T* 8 inches taller than me is wonderful. I had no idea it would be so great to be able to just reach right over and kiss a guy that way. I highly recommend it. But you will have to find a different guy to try it with! And as far as anyone who “can’t be turned on” by someone under a certain height…all it takes is the right personality. If he’s got that certain something–the “something” that makes him all man–he’s going to turn you on, and the height isn’t going to matter.
Height does not matter to me one iota!!! I’ve dated guys as short as me, (maybe shorter, but I can’t remember, because it was never an issue), to as tall as 6’5″!! I don’t even check the height when I read profiles!!! Of course, being 5’2″, most are taller, but it’s not because of a requirement on my part!
Well this will sound nuts I know. I know this topic didn’t mean how’s sex with shorter guys….. BUT I’m 33 5’4″ and the 3 most memorible people I have ever slept with have all been my height MAYBE an inch more MAYBE less. I have no clue what it is about them. There’s a sexual position, I don’t know what it’s called but its basically missionary but he farther up or something. Women are suppose to be able to orgasm easier. I think because they are shorter and want to be more eye to eye with you, that they naturally end up in the right spot. All 3 were all pretty toned too if it matters. There have been very few men who I could orgasm with with sex alone. These are the 3……Yes, I’ve done some thinking on this subject. LOL. I like tall guys and all. I’m not basing anything on how tall he is but if I had to chose the height of the person I would spend the rest of my life with right this second and know nothing else, he’d be about the same height as I am just based from past sexual experience. I DID NOT SAY TALLER GUYS AREN”T GREAT TOO…not to start any argument. Not my intention. There are a lot of great advantages there too. I could end up with some 6’5″ guy and be just as happy with him or someone 5’4″ like me. But I do know for a fact with my body that I can orgasm easier and more often if they are closer to the same size as I am. Everyone is different, this is just my opinion about ME and my body. —jes
Speaking as a short woman (4’11″), I love short guys!!!
Its nice to be able to look someone in the eye for a change
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For a REAL woman, height doesn’t matter.
Cathie saysWho are these girls that you’re finding? I rarely hear of girls who are that superficial and as I’m sure you’ve heard already..If they’re that superficial you don’t want them anyways. You’re SO not destined to be single. I know tons of “shorter” guys who are married to hotties. It just hasn’t been the right time yet. Everyone has a couple of different likes/dislikes and thank goodnesss we’re all different. My best friend tends to date thinner guys and I tend to date bigger guys. The most important thing to women really is your personality. I’m not kidding. Make us laugh. Make us feel like you’ll keep us warm and protect us. Kill spiders for us. Buy us dinner. Satisfy us…We’re really not as complicated and bitchy as it seems. The right chick’s gonna ADORE ya!!!
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